Families of people buried in resting places vulnerable to coastal erosion argue that a lack of decision on how best to address the problem is causing them avoidable anguish concerning the final resting places of their loved ones.
Local authorities have singled out three church graveyards in the communities of Happisburgh, Trimingham, and Mundesley as being in danger of being swallowed by the ocean in the next few generations.
A recent report on the situation sets out a series of options, from doing nothing to exhuming remains and reburying them in safer sites. Authorities say it is for local people to decide how to proceed.
“Right now we’re in limbo. It upsets me. My parents wanted this to serve as their final resting place, but it won't be because of the sea.”
Estimates indicate at least a portion of one graveyard could fall into the waves in the next 80 years, but some locals worry it will happen much sooner. “I think it’s got less than 20 years, if you consider what’s occurred in the last 30 years,” one said.
A local business owner recalled a school trip to the neighbouring settlement of Eccles, which has largely vanished into the water, along with its place of worship and burial ground.
“You could see human remains,” she said. “Some have this romantic idea that the deceased will just get washed out to sea. That is not the case. People will take bones as souvenirs and go plundering graves in search of treasures. That is completely undignified.”
“I’m worried that the same thing that happened at Eccles will occur at Happisburgh and there’ll be bones on the shore. I’d be appalled by that.”
Further up the shoreline is situated the burial plot of a former paratrooper killed while serving overseas. His parent expressed she could not sleep after discovering her child's grave might one day be relocated.
“It does trouble me to consider this may not remain his lasting resting place,” she said. “For us it’s an significant place to go.”
In her view, new interments should cease but says it is premature to exhume existing graves. “What I would choose for now is to take no action and watch carefully, but an timely resolution needs to be made when a critical moment has been reached.”
The lack of agreement over when and how to tackle the challenge has resulted in bereaved families feeling frustrated and anxious.
Several families want more coastal protections to slow the inevitable erosion and to permit funerals to continue for now. Others argue the time for relocation is drawing near.
“The situation is very emotive,” said one relative. “The official study was thorough, but now there’s confusion about how it is taken forward. And all parties is washing their hands over who is responsible.”
A coastal manager said the burial sites were owned and managed of the church authorities. “Ultimately it is down to them to decide the path to take. We are here to help support them through that journey with residents.”
He added there was ample time to weigh all the options. “This concerns many years before it starts to be lost.”
“Currently, there exists no unified opinion on what should be done yet. We need productive community discussions to find the right solutions for each village.”
The possibility of losing the historic sites was labeled one of “immense sadness for the area,” but faith leaders also spoke of a belief in resurrection, offering a spiritual perspective on the temporal disappearance of sacred ground.
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